According to the book description of Boy in a Box, "This book is
an autobiographical account of the lessons I learned about life and how I was
able to apply them to inspire, motivate and empower others in my own work as a
firefighter, as well in my daily life as a husband, a father and a man. When I
was five years-old, my father abandoned my mother and three sisters, beginning a
whole new life when he started another family. I never saw him again. This
presented me with many challenges growing up, but even this heartache was
overshadowed by debilitating injuries I sustained as an 18 year-old call
firefighter. On January 13, 1980, while performing a training exercise at a
vacant mill, my left hand passed through an induction field of a live 35,000
volt transmission line. Approximately 14,000 volts of electricity surged through
my body as I ascended a fire department aerial ladder. While I was fortunate
that the current did not instantly kill me, or fall to my death, the injuries to
both my hands and right leg were catastrophic, altering the path of my life and
shaping me in many ways. At times the pain and severity of my injuries were too
much to bear and made me pray to God to take me. With the love and support of
many people, however, I found an inner strength that exists in all of us, and I
made it out of the hospital after a harrowing five month journey.
Through years of grueling rehabilitation and dozens of operations, I remained
determined to fulfill my life-long ambition of becoming a firefighter. I have
always said my life is an open book, and in BOY IN A BOX, I am brutally honest
about these, and many other personal adversities, including a battle with
prescription pain killers and incidents of brutal bullying experienced by my own
son. Even before my accident, I have been a student of leadership and
inspiration. While I have read countless books on the subjects and attended
numerous conferences and seminars, not a single author or speaker was a
regular person. That is why I wrote BOY IN A BOX. I feel that I have a mission
to complete, or better still, a responsibility, to give back for having been so
fortunate in life despite having it groomed by hardship. Now, I have written
about my journey, with its ups and downs, accomplishments and adversities,
mistakes and failures, the few wins and many losses. I believe that people are
basically all the same, and that what differentiates us is how we deal with our
problems. I also believe that storytelling can be the best medicine in helping
us get through lifes many challenges. Those of us who are willing to share our
journey in an honest and candid way can help alleviate someone elses suffering
and sorrows. I want to inspire, motivate, and empower the ordinary person, so
that they might be able to realize their full potential."
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